Friend of the blog, Jen Abbas, is planning a wedding. In July, she'll wed beau Niels. Jen is the author of Generation Ex, a book that I know a lot of adult children of divorce have found tremendously beneficial. As she gets ready to walk the aisle, Jen offers some thoughts on the unique challenges of wedding planning for children of divorce.
"...how does one plan a wedding with all the naive, optimistic hope that makes two people giddy enough to take the plunge when some of the most important guests have shown us that sometimes the water's not so great for swimming?"