I won’t sit back, though, and let this ruin me. But I will look at my children every day for the rest of my life, and see the pain and hurt their father caused by walking out. The distrust, anger, and pain that this has carved in their life will never be erased. How can I be so sure? I was the child of a divorce. This is not something a child gets over. Divorce is something children learn to live with because their parents have given them no choice.
My ex asked me during the whole separation process, “Do you really think the kids want me stay married and be unhappy?”
Um. Yeah. I do. It’s called love: unconditional, selfless, pure love. This is a value that is slowly diminishing in our society.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
A mother's response
This is a perfect follow up to the article I just posted: